@LZoltowski - Okay, so people saying "Suck my dick" doesn't offend you as a gay man, but what if a team of all heterosexual game devs made a game where you play as a straight man, trying to fend off hordes of sex-crazed gay rapists who are all depicted as stereotypically effeminate and creepy and exaggeratedly ugly, etc.? And this game turns out to be super popular, like all the big youtube celebrities are playing it and everywhere you go, teens are talking about the game, and everyone's just casually throwing around homophobic slurs and talking about how terrifying gay men are and what they'd do if a gay man ever attacked them..
Would that be funny? I don't know how much homophobia you have or have not personally experienced during your life-time, but obviously that's something that still exists in our society and that people are still fighting to eliminate, so I can't imagine you'd be happy to see a game that blatantly demonizes gay people, or to see that game being played and celebrated by the people around you, and I can't imagine you'd be upset if the game ended up being taken down.
THAT is what it's like to be neuro-divergent and see all these games where "mental illness" is treated like a zombie plague, or a character-defining trait shared by almost every fictional villain and ONLY by the villains.
And in case you think I'm not qualified to express how the "mentally ill" feel about this subject.. Well, I don't like to go around advertising this, but I "suffer" from a few things myself, not the least of which being Borderline Personality Disorder. When I say it hurts neurodivergents when this kind of stuff is in the media, I'm speaking from personal experience. I'M not a bad guy, I'm not a threat to the people around me, or undeserving of trust. I'm not unreliable, I'm no more "irrational" than any regular person, and I'm far from being a burden to society. But because of the way the media depicts "the mentally ill", numerous people throughout my life have automatically assumed those sorts of thing about me without any reason to, or alternatively assumed that I MUST be a regular neurotypical person BECAUSE I'm not any of those things. I'm talking my parents, teachers, classmates, former employers, potential employers, love interests, even my closest friends. And it ****ing hurts to be treated like that, every time.
Does that mean I get offended if someone calls somebody else "crazy"? Not any more than you're offended by people saying "suck my dick". But there's a big difference between things like that and actual ableism or homophobia, which IS harmful. And I'm not too fond of media or people that actively promote bigoted ideas or that makes people like us the butt of jokes, and of never being depicted in a positive light.
How do you know that Mario and Master Chief don't have a mental illness CrashFu? The answer is you don't, just as we wouldn't have known that you have your issues.
You have pointed out quite nicely that mental illness in real life is nothing like how it is shown in games and films - a zombie plague?
I personally will laugh at the jokes where gay men are made out to be running around effeminately purely for the reason that it's utterly ridiculous - i won't burst out laughing when i'm working with my gay colleagues because unfortunately they are perfectly boring and it just isn't funny that they are gay.
I will laugh at my friend who is a computer genius if he ever attempts to plug a USB cable into a displayport socket (even if it is an accident - christ, he knows it doesn't go there) - i will rib him for weeks about it. I won't laugh if granny Smith does it - i will explain the different ports and show her diagrams.
You are perfectly entitled to your views and i'm not trying to change them, i'm just trying to explain that others have different views but they are not borne out of malice or hatred of anybody.