VR glasses vs astigmatism and vision defect ?

Ufoludek  I have astigmatism and my glasses work fine with all my Quest headsets (Q2, Q3, QPro).  Main thing is to make sure your glasses frames are not to big and your lens are good quality high index (lighter/thinner).  Also, if for reading you have transition/bifocals, try to make sure that this is +1.5 or less to avoid lower screen distortion.  My glasses are rimless titanium frames (140x40mm) with high index glare proof lens.

Others seem to like prescription lens inserts but since I've never found these necessary, I cannot say anything about those.  Google to find those to fit whatever Quest headset you end up buying.

Not sure about the RayBan glasses since I don't plan to buy these in the near future.  Currently, the Quest headsets are better for most VR usage imho.  I believe you'd need to buy prescription lens (not just inserts) to use those glasses.

https://www.meta.com/en-gb/help/smart-glasses/articles/ray-ban-meta/prescription-lenses-ray-ban-meta-smart-glasses/

As far as your account verification goes, I'm just a forum user so I can't help you with that one.  I think you just need to work this out with meta support.  Good luck mate and cheers.

It's possible to wear prescription glasses with a VR headset but many people find it uncomfortable after a short time and there is a risk of contact between the glasses and the headset lenses which will cause scratching and eventually interfere with the image.

Prescription lens inserts (which attach directly to the headset and do away with the need for glasses) are a well-recommended alternative. They tend to be more comfortable and protect the headset lenses from damage. Online suppliers can provide them based on most prescriptions.