Mac Oculus Developer Hub Cant connect to Quest 2

I usually do a lot of development on my mac and hate to switch to windows 10 to do stuff.  I wanted to get my quest 2 working with my Mac but so far nothing that I do seems to trigger enabled usb debugging on my mac with the quest 2.  This works fine in windows and my Quest 1 also works on my mac.

I have all the bells and whistles and settings enabled on the quest 2 (hence it works on windows 10).. the device shows up with lsusb command but adb devices listes nothing.. Thoughts?