Being a "Rookie" at this, my questions are: #1 - Some of the programs require hand controllers. Can I get one that will also control the "Temple Button" and then I could be 100% Hand Controller Operating? #2 - I was wondering if a wireless XBox controller would work, since I have one.. #3 - Which controller would you recommend for this 77 year old occasional player that isn't backpacking it all day?