I hope DaftNDirect won't mind but I took his idea and made a thread dedicated to VR gamers who wish, or are forced to use surround-sound speakers.
Surround-sound setups require their games to have a fixed 'soundstage' for their sound to be accurately positioned for their speakers. Many VR games e.g. Vader Immortal have clearly been design with headphone only headsets, like the Quest, because it's the movement of your head that positions the sound which is ideal for headphones, instead of the soundstage being fixed which is required for speaker setups.
I have rated these games as "OK", "OK with Issues" and "Headphones Only". I would be very grateful if anyone from the community wishes to add or update any game.
Titans of Space
[OK with Issues]
1943 Berlin Blitz: Sound made to seem like it's coming from the in-game headphones but engine noise seems to be positioned correctly.
Fallout4 VR: Voices predominantly in center speaker