I meant I pulled power from the PC and rebooted both. Then I removed all steam applications from running in background. I then restarted the oculus app and hard wired my headset. It asked me again to change the settings and I was able to click it.

I ran into this problem just 3 days ago. I did a cold boot removed my steam app from running then was able to set the Oculus as active tic. It greyed out ever so slightly its been working since then. Good lucky I have windows 11