Disabled Facebook account

My account on Facebook was disabled on the 14th. There is no way to appeal. There was no email explaining why. I have never been on trouble with Facebook. The weird part is on the same day my son was disabled also. He lives about 50 miles away. Im disabled and talk to family all over on there. When I tried to hit Facebook help now if says connection lost. No matter how many times I hit it nothing happens. A person on X that says Facebook help wants money. Pass